Relationships for S.M.A.R .T. Women

Are you a S.M.A.R.T. woman, or a man who loves such an awesome woman? Benita A. Esposito, MA

S = Spiritual

M = Mature

A = Authentic

R = Responsible

T = Trustworthy

Do you want the relationship of your dreams? My clients often ask, "Now that I’ve attained a measure of financial success, what will it take to create a deeply fulfilling loving relationship?"  You have come to  the right place if you are a confident strong woman, (or a man in love with such an awesome woman) and healthy romance has posed a challenge in the past. You’ve probably had more than one relationship that was disappointing, and you don’t want to repeat that pattern any more.

Authentic Relationship Coaching starts with helping you get clear about your vision of what really works for you and what doesn’t. What are your core values that define your True North? How do you go from being independent to co-creating a happy inter-dependent relationship? These are a few of the questions. It is my greatest joy to help people develop enduring healthy fulfilling relationships.

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Who uses Authentic Relationship Coaching?

(1) You are single and you want to transform self-defeating patterns. You want to develop a flourishing relationship with your Authentic Self, and you want to grow in spiritual intimacy. Adeptness in these areas is a pre-requisite for flourishing relationships. You want to get it right this time.

(2) You are dating or engaged. You are excited because you dream just might be coming true, and you are scared all at the same time because you don’t want to repeat old patterns. You are smart enough to know that you may not be objective because of all the happy hormones fogging your rational ability. Your friends can’t be objective enough either. What if you ignore important red flags? You want an expert, objective coach to give you feedback. You want help you set a healthy foundation so your relationship flourishes forever, or you get clear that this is not the right relationship for you.

(3) You are married or co-habitating. You want to set a solid healthy foundation for an enduring, flourishing relationship.

I work with clients to prevent painful patterns from ever developing. I also work with marriages where conflicts have mounted up, and both people want to make changes. My intention is to stop painful patterns through preventive education and coaching.




Here’s my recipe for a fulfilling enduring relationship.

1. Be true to your Authentic Self, your God-given identity.

2. Identify and eliminate pesky self-sabotage patterns.

3. Boost your self-awareness rooted in spiritual intimacy.

4. Improve communication: empathy and assertiveness.

5. Develop conflict management skills so you both win.

6. Reduce stress so you can sleep well and flourish.

7. Increase your life-work balance.

8. Heighten your intuition to be more discerning.

9. Increase your career happiness and creativity.

10. Manage your fears and other uncomfortable emotions.

Olympic athletes hire a coach to attain their next level of mastery and so do high-achievers. My clients understand that to increase business success, they must continually upgrade their inner world. They want to invest in their loving relationship as well because they want an absolutely fulfilling life!

I’m an expert in the inner world to help your outer world show up the way you want it to.

Stop the repetitious painful patterns. Be fulfilled finally!


Formats: Telephonic Coaching, Teleseminars, In-person Coaching, Retreats, Online Home Study Course, Articles, eBooks.

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Location: Young Harris, Georgia & Atlanta in-person. Coaching the world by phone.

Associate Member, Worldwide Association of Business Coaches (WABC)

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When each of us taps the passion of our dreams while grounded in our true identity, we help create a world of peace and love where people thrive, not just survive. ~Benita A. Esposito, MA